STEP 2: Exercise
All exercise is not created equal. There are certain types of exercise best suited for a type of person, body shape, goals and other factors. There is rarely a one size fits all method when it comes to exercise. Sure, the basics still apply, but after those, your training may need some fine tuning to ensure you're getting the right fit for you.
Strength training wins 99.9% of the time for body composition goals. If you're not getting stronger and building muscle, you're not lowering your body fat & and "toning up". Your ultimate training goal should be to become as strong as possible in all areas of your training to ensure muscle balances and a total lean body. Eg. don't neglect your legs, arms, abs etc.
Perfectly execute all of your movements to ensure proper muscle development and to train good habits and muscle memory. Rushing through your reps or "half-assing" them is good for nobody. "You're only cheating yourself" is the perfect saying in this case.
Quick fix workouts that are all the craze right now simply don't work long term. Taking the personal out of Personal Training is not the answer. It's like going to Woolworths and having to do your own check out. Am I the only one that thinks we're now paying the same prices for less service? So if your personal trainer, is not personally training you, it's time to leave them and go to someone else who values you higher and takes care when helping you construct your new dream body!
Find a good quality trainer (like at Revive ;) ) and allow them to work with you and progress your training on a day to day basis. Get stronger, build muscle, get leaner, stay leaner.